I lost mother I was close 17 year old.Her death all sudden nobody had clue she was going to die.Like Kid's I also My father in 8/1994 that send chain reaction for 9 months My sister father-law- in 11/94 then my sister mother -in-law 4/1995 .They treat us both as theirs draughts and other daughter-in-law they aslo tearted as daughter.I am alway lost of words when other people has lost loves one. I scared I make them more upset.